Wednesday, October 29, 2008

long distance love (finding love on the Internet)


God made us to love one another; our family & neighbors (whether the same or opposite sex). He has a plans for us and He sets everything in motion. However, there are some instances that He will make us confused and let us choose in order for us to develop our decision making. You will be the one to decide whom you are going to marry and God will be there to guide to the right person. When you want something keep on struggling and ask God for guidance.

They said long distance relationship is hard. Yes, it's true! My sister dreamt to marry a foreigner specifically a caucasian. It took her three years to find Steve (her husband). She said it's hard to find love in the internet because: 1. it's expensive to go to the internet cafe daily to maintain the communication between the two of you, 2. you're not sure if the one you're talking to is sincere, honest and single (not committed) 3. chatting online is not an assurance that you
know the person you are talking to especially the negative qualities because others pretend to be somebody, 4. and lastly, you must be humurous so that your discussion will be interesting and no dull moments between the two of you.

For three years of chatting online my sister finally met her husband from florida and they are happily married. Now, he went back to florida and although it's hard for her to be far from him for a long while, she just keeps in her mind that "there's always a rainbow after the rain".

Now i realize, all we have to do is be patient. If you dream to build love in the internet just keep on looking and ask God for guidance. If you're into dating sites and someone will ignore you, it only means that they were already planned by God to be with someone else. Just keep in mind that among these guys there is someone who is meant for you if not today but probably tomorrow.

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